DEEPENING IN RELATIONSHIP
- engaging our relationship as a spiritual path -
welcome to
deepening in relationship
A 4 part online offering
Engaging our relationship as a spiritual path.
I do not claim to be an expert in relationships. I believe we are all learning the lessons we need through our relationships. I encourage people to approach their relationships as the main stage/ school/ dojo/ practice of their spiritual growth.
My gift is in communication and sensitivity within the subtle realms. I have an innate ability to understand and comprehend a broad range of (both masculine and feminine) communication styles and create the pictures and metaphors necessary to interpret them to another. I can identify the vibrational energies at play, tease them out into the open and help people to express them.
I am here to offer a new lens or perspective to see your relationship through.
How can I support the strength and continuity of love within your relationship?
4 x Separate private consultations
1st Session 120min - all 3 of us together, couple’s consultation
2nd Session 90min - between you & I
3rd Session 90min - between your partner & I
4th Session 120min - all 3 of us together again, couple’s consultation
some questions to consider before our session…
1.
Primary Relationship
Our first and primary relationship is with our Self.
Our divine Inner Self.
Is our current relationship supporting us in honouring and growing in our primary relationship with Self?
Are we supporting our partner to grow in their relationship with their Self?
2.
Deepening in Relationship
This is the heart of the issue, the lifeblood of your shared ‘love child’.
What is the path of loyalty to the ‘love child’, the 3rd entity, that your relationship creates?
What are your combined energies creating in your community?
What is the path of loyalty to unconditional love of the other?
What is the path of loyalty to your Self?
3.
Seeing The Divinity Within Our Partner
How is the wisdom of the divine masculine/feminine speaking to us through our partner?
What is the next level of personal growth that is being asked of us?
How is this relationship challenging us/catalyzing our growth?
Are we able to offer to ourselves what we wish to give to our beloved?
4.
Becoming Aware Of The Shadow
Do you need help articulating your needs?
Are your personal requests being honoured, understood and clearly communicated?
What have you been speaking that you feel is not being heard or acknowledged?
Are important aspects of your Self going unappreciated or unseen?
Is there an unhealthy element of control, domination, abuse that needs to be addressed?
5.
Growing In Power
How does witnessing our partner in their Power inspire us?
What aspects of seeing them in their Power challenge us?
Is there a willingness to support the spiritual growth of our partner even when it leads them in an independent direction?
Is this relationship supporting you in growing into a more ideal version of your true Self?
…More responsible, accountable, integrated? More active, engaged, connected? More brave, open hearted, empathic? More empowered, capable, and vital? More free, expressed and joyful?
6.
Co-Creation
What is the difference between complimentary energies and codependent tendencies?
Are co-dependent tendencies stagnating the growth of your relationship?
Are we living a shared(co-created) vision of our reality or are we just playing a role in our partner’s movie?
Trust: Honesty and transparency, in balance with privacy and boundaries.
7.
Expanding The Boundaries Of Perception And Connection
Conscious uncoupling and a commitment to love through changing forms and structures.
Tending the health of your relationship beyond monogamy and a shared living space.
How our autonomy, agency and interdependence within community holds a strong mirror to our behavior within our intimate relationships.
Choose a topic from above or bring your own unique inquiry into our …
‘Deepening In Relationship’
4X Part session Work
Life As An Initiation
How present and conscious can we be with the challenges facing us? How are they shaping us into the person that we want to be?
I am still learning from many of my past relationships. I have spent nearly equal amounts of my adult life single as I have in committed relationships.
I have been married and divorced, completely in love and wholly heartbroken. I have found the courage to open my heart and love again. I have experienced a second multi-year monogamous relationship and made the difficult decision to part ways in love. I have maintained communication and friendship with my ex-wife and other former lovers, including meeting up with them and their current partners. I am currently in a committed relationship.
I believe in maintaining as many healthy relationships as possible, each with their own unique gifts and boundaries. Each one, helping us to play a role in the peace of our community and nurturing the love within our greater human family.
I know the pain of starting over alone. I know what choosing integrity to myself and my truth looks like. I can empathize with many of the tough decisions that love and relationship will bring us face to face with.
My Offering…
I am here to support you in finding your truth, so that it can be your guiding light through this time of transition.